Tip Of The Week: Brainstorming

Oh My Gosh!!  He asked!!  You said YES and you've already told all of your family and friends.  Now what.  When I start working with a bride and groom the very first thing I do is to ask them what they want their wedding outcome to be.  It is extremely important for you and your fiancee {no family, friends or coworkers} to sit with each other and envision your perfect day.  Write down all of the things you've dreamed of or anything you've seen that really inspired you.  Also, write down your favorite colors, styles of music, or anything artistic that speaks to you.  Dream big and write it all down...BRAINSTORM!  

Start by asking yourself the most important question of all: What emotions do I want my guests to have on my wedding day?  How do I want them to remember everything after they've left?

If you answered with words like joy, faith, serenity, you might discover that you want a more intimate celebration. If your thoughts were more toward excitement and energy, you might lean towards a more lively party.

Discuss other weddings you've been to and think of what you've seen that you both liked - and what you know you will NOT do at your wedding! 

When you feel as though you cannot come up with anything more and you are happy with the collection of ideas and inspiration, it is time to start putting them in order and make this wedding happen your way! 

Come back next week for the beginning of prioritizing and organizing.